A Love Story

Today I am linking up with two other blogs!  I am sharing my "love story" for a link up with Wonder Woman Wannabe.  

 I think it will also count as a Feel Good Friday post at The Girl Next Door Grows Up!

So, here goes...

In 1997, I was a wild and crazy single girl woman.  I had dated and dated, but just had not found a guy I really wanted to spend any time with.  My friends kept trying to set me up and of course, it never worked out.  Finally, I feel like I came to a place where I was happy.  I was working and having fun with family (I had a new niece that I was spoiling rotten!) and just hanging out with friends.  I decided I was good, didn't need to join the convent, but didn't need to be on the prowl either.

I have a good friend who is a guy, not gay, who I hung out with all the time.  We worked together too.  One day he says to me, "You should meet my neighbor."  I'm thinking, "How have I not met all of your neighbors already???  We are always together!"  But I say, "Don't do me any favors.  I really don't want to be set up!"

After a while, I gave in.  But with conditions.  I told him, he could bring him over to my place and we would cook out.  There had to be other people there as well because, if I didn't like him I wanted to have other people to talk to!  So we set up an evening and my friend put out the invitation.  Later, I get a call from the guy saying thanks for the invite, but he can't make it.  He has bible study.  Yes, I could not believe it!  I was beginning to think maybe I DID want to meet this guy!  Not only did he have manners, but he was a Christian who attended bible study!!  Well, he asks if we can reschedule, so we do.

My friend and I stuck with the original plan and invited others to come for a bbq and everyone shows up.  When my blind date comes in, all I can think is, wow, that guy is so cute!  Why is he single?  What's wrong with him?  (Later, he tells me he thought the same about me!) 

So, the night goes on, we have a great time.  Great conversation, us sitting at the table with our friends outside peeking in the windows at us trying to figure out if we are having fun, and realizing we have a lot in common!  We had such a good time together, we made plans to see each other the next night.  We made a date to go out to eat with a couple that he was great friends with.  I guess he needed approval from them.

Well, I guess he got it, because we saw each other every single day after that.  My family fell in love with Greg just as quickly as I did.  Just like any girl, I had my wedding all worked up in my head.  The only problem was, he took his sweet time asking me to marry him!  In 1999, my dad passed away.  He was very sick with cancer for a long time.  I was heartbroken, but Greg was right there with me the whole way.  I was really sad though, that my dad would never be there at my wedding to walk me down the aisle.

The following year, Greg and I were spending Thanksgiving together, alone.  My mom had moved out of state and Greg's family lived out of state as well.  That day I was in such a funk.  I was glad to be with him, but so sad not to be with family.  I missed my dad so much.  Greg knew I was sad.  He was hugging me and drying my tears.  All of a sudden he said, "Would you cheer up if I asked you to marry me?"

I was all...WHAT???  I was so surprised!  It was the furthest thing from my mind at that moment.  Then he reached over and picked up a hat off the counter.  Under it was this beautiful red box with my beautiful ring in it.  Yes, it cheered me up! 

We were married almost a year later.  All of our family was there.  My brothers, all 4 of them, gave me away.  And Greg wears my sweet father's wedding ring, given to us by my mom.  The one he wore for almost 50 years.

My mom said, "I know how much he loved Greg, he would want him to wear it."

I hope that he will wear it for 50 years.  Or more.

Happy Valentines Day!

Gifts under the Love Tree!

We have a few little packages under the "Love Tree"!

They won't be there for long though, the girls have their dance lessons today and we will deliver the goodies to their teachers for Valentines Day.  I decided to make up a batch of Angelica's kettle corn and top them off with a little flower from Skip to my Lou.

Pretty quick and easy little gift for teachers...yummy too! 

Tribe Talk

Happy Monday ya'll!  I was over visiting my friend Gay at It's a Hodgepodge Life, and she's having a little party!  She's having some "Tribe Talk"!  She invited me to come over and bring along some of my new found bloggy friends!  I have been having so much fun reading all of the comments from everyone.  This is such a new thing for me.  I started blogging for out of town family.  I wanted them to be able to see new photos of my girls all the time and show off some of my crafty stuff to friends without having to haul them around everywhere with me!  Last month I joined up with SITS and also The Texas Blogging Gals, and now I have "met" so many cool people.  So, if you haven't met them, here are a few that I read regularly, and I hear from them in my comments section as well.  So thanks for the bloggy love ladies!

The Mommyologist

Things I Can't Say

Humes, Party of Three

Wonder Woman Wannabe

The Girl Next Door Grows Up

South of Sheridan

and don't forget to visit Gay!

I wouldn't be a good bloggy friend if I didn't let you in on a cool giveaway!  Head over to Tatertots and Jello for a $50 gift certificate to Madison Reece Designs!

Tomorrow, I will be back with an idea for teacher's Valentines!  Simple ones at that!  See you then!

Feel Good Friday

I am a little late in the day for this post, but I love the idea!  So I am linking up with The Girl Next Door Grows Up for Feel Good Friday!

Overall I have had a pretty good week.  Monday I started out a little bit in a funk, but I think we all do that when we have a little sickie in the house.

Here are 5 of the things that have made me happy this week:

1.  On Monday night, I made a Mahi Mahi with citrus sauce.  My husband said it was the best fish he ever ate.  That man is so sweet, I could feed him hot dog food and he'd say it was delicious!  I got me a real keeper!

2.  Thanks to that keeper of mine, I got to go grocery shopping ALL BY MYSELF!

3.  My little boo boo is feeling well enough to twirl around in the new skirt I made her.

4.  My older daughter decided she wanted to show our dog in a (home based) dog show.  I think they won.  But I am not so sure the dog will participate again!

5.  I am happy that I have two sweet assistants for baking brownies on a Friday afternoon!

Another reason my husband is a HOT TAMALE

Have you ever heard the old joke where the punch line says something like, a man is really sexy when he's in the kitchen,

with a broom!

Well, yes, I do think that's sexy!  How about you?  I hate to sweep...or mop for that matter.  I don't often find my husband in the kitchen with a broom though.  He is a very neat person.  Sometimes, it makes me nuts!  We don't have any rugs that have the fringe on the end.  He'd be straightening the fringe and taking his scissors to it to make sure they were all even.  My mom says she feels sorry for him! 

Well, I told you he stayed home from work on Monday.  When I came back from grocery shopping, I didn't know where he was.  The kids were hanging out in the living room and it took me about 3 or 4 times of asking where daddy was to get an answer.  "He's in my room with the chalk."  my oldest finally tells me.

As I go around the corner in the hallway, I spot a few big trash bags full of trash.  Then I walk into the my oldest's bedroom to find this:

(insert angels singing here)

I should have gotten a close up of how neat and clean the chalk tray is!

It all began in the closet here, which was a complete disaster area.  And he got on a roll and finished the whole room.  The bedroom part really was not bad, but he made it fabulous.  I did dig a few things out of the trash, like some Build a Bear clothes, but I am trying not to think about what else was in the bottom of those bags that the trash man took away!

Of course, I have no before photos for comparison, but, trust me, the singing angels are in order!

Isn't he cute? 

He's good at Wii bowling too.

Does your guy clean?

Passing along the Sunshine!

I met a sweet new friend named Gay who sent me this:

Isn't it lovely?  I sure think so.  Especially since the weather man says it should be raining around here for the next 2 days!

So along with this comes some responsibilities.  I am supposed to:

1.  Put the logo in my post or within my blog.

2.  Pass the award onto 12 fellow bloggers.

3. Link the nominees within my post.

4.  Let the nominees know they have received this award  by leaving a comment on their blogs.

5.  Share the love and link to the person who gave you the award!

Thank you Gay!  Go check her out at It's a Hodgepodge Life!

I am just really beginning to kind of form a tribe.  Here are some of the blogs that I enjoy reading.  Some I can really relate to in many ways and some just really make me smile!   Maybe you will too!

(I understand that some may be such blogging superstars that they may not be able to fulfill all of the obligations stated above.  If that is the case, just know that I wanted to spread the sunshine and I love to read your blog!)

1. Kelly at Home and Apparel Trends for the Frugal Fashionista

2.  Angelica at Tygrlilies

3. Melody at 6 Feet Over

4. Sasha at Lemonade Makin' Mama

5.  Stacey at Living by Faith, Hope and Love

6.  Mrs. Montoya at One Foot in Front of the Other

7.  Crystal at Balanced Moms

8.  Freddae' at Coffee, God and Me

9.  Chrissie Grace at In His Grace

10.  The Mommyologist

Have a sunny day! 

Apparently, I accomplished a lot today

It was hard to get out of bed today.  I went to bed last night all gung ho about how productive I was going to be this week.  Well, I got up and my husband decided to take the day off.  I had a dr's appointment and needed to get my grocery shopping done.  Well, my 3 year old woke up with bad cold symptoms and a low grade fever, so the day's plans were changed.

I cancelled my appointment, but not without a scolding from the lady at the dr's office for not giving 24 hours notice.  Then I made an appointment for the little one.  I was really in a funk, but said some prayers to try and let it all go and remember how blessed I am.

I head out by myself to the grocery store.  That is no small blessing in itself!  I am strolling along through the store and spot a couple in one of the aisles doing their shopping together.  The lady is in her pajamas!  Now, I have seen this before, but usually it's a 15 year old, not a lady in her 30's sporting a pair of high top tennis shoes with her jammies!!

So, I bring home the food, get it all put away and feed the kids some lunch.  I pack up my little girlie, after having gotten her dressed and washed up, and head off to the pedi's office.  As we are leaving, I see a man carrying a baby into the office, followed by his wife and another two kids.  Well, guess what?  He was wearing his pajamas!

Did I miss the memo?  Was it pajama day? 

So, then I am driving home and it's like 3:30 in the afternoon.  I see a man out checking his mail.  Yeah, you guessed it, he was in his pajamas.

You see, if I didn't do anything else today, I figure I accomplished a lot today.

I got dressed.

How do you feel about wearing pj's in public?